JACK'S DILEMMA: I think my mum is having an affair with my best mate. He is 19 and had been staying with us while his family were on holiday. The other day my mum was showing me a joke on her mobile when I noticed there were lots of messages from my mate in her inbox. Later I read them and they said how much they want to be together. I feel sick.

Should I tell my father? IF you've a dilemma or want to give advice, phone Shereen on the Real Love Show on 0845 100 2101 between 10pm-1am on Saturday.

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GARY'S DILEMMA: I met Fiona four weeks ago and she virtually moved in the first night. The first week was brilliant but she turned from a nice girl into something quite scary and possessive. She's texted every female in my mobile and told them to leave me alone. She also turns up when I'm out with the boys. I have told her that her behaviour is unacceptable but she bursts into tears. How do I get her out without a scene?

SHEREEN SAYS: You're going to have to be a man and tell her the relationship is over! She might stalk you for a while but you have to get her out of your flat. Be prepared for a scene because it looks as if it will be unavoidable. Next time try and get to know a women before moving them in on the first night.

YOUR ADVICE: Sleep with her best friend and make sure she catches you.

JOHN, Gorbals Wait until she goes out, then pack her stuff and change the locks.

MARION, Possilpark

ANNA'S DILEMMA: I don't mind my boyfriend going out with the boys. But he always turns off his phone and I can't get a hold of him. I wonder what he's doing and with whom. His excuses are "there wasn't a signal in the pub" or he didn't charge his phone. What is he up to?

SHEREEN SAYS: Just because his phone's off doesn't mean he's sleeping with other women. He probably just wants a bit of peace.

YOUR ADVICE: My partner does the same and we have often had huge arguments over it. You need to tell him you're not putting up with this behaviour.

KAREN, Kelvingrove My wife goes mad if she can't get a hold of me. It's an easier life just to keep my phone on.

JAMES, Knightswood Give the guy a break. He might be chatting up other women but be grateful he comes home to you each night.

GUS, Croftfoot

KATHY'S DILEMMA: Just before Christmas, my husband walked out on me and our two daughters. He said he couldn't handle our arguments. Since then he and I have had a chat and he wants to come home. I'm willing to give him another chance but my youngest daughter, who's 16, doesn't want him back. How can I choose between my husband and my daughter? Either way I'll lose someone.

SHEREEN SAYS: Your daughter probably can't handle living with parents who are continuously fighting. You and your hubby need to get your act together for the sake of your daughter. I wouldn't be surprised if, when he walks back in, she will walk out. Perhaps she is being more realistic about your marriage than you are.

YOUR ADVICE You must choose your husband. You can't let you daughter dictate to you how you live your life. Let her go as she will eventually come back to you when she understands how adult relationships work.

SALLY, Glasgow Tell her to get her man out, weans are for life!

MARGARET, Glasgow He deserves a medal for living with three women! Your 16-year-old is still a child and must accept your wishes.

PAT, Tollcross She should tell her husband where to get off. He left her and she should stick by her daughter.

DAVID, Ibrox LAST WEEK'S DILEMMA: Does my ex really want me back?

ASHLEY needed your help as her ex was playing silly games.

She and her boyfriend split up last November after nearly two years together.

She still loves him, even though he's now with someone else. But he's now told her he wants her back and that he will leave his current girlfriend.

But he hasn't done anything about it yet.

What should Ashley do?

SHEREEN SAYS: This guy left you and jumped into bed with someone else. Move on and stop living in the past.

YOUR ADVICE What part of "he's making a fool of you" don't you understand? He sounds like a nasty piece of work who is chancing his luck - and you're letting him.

DAVIE, Blochairn Give him time. I'm in the same situation and my ex has promised he'll leave his new girlfriend in six months as he doesn't want to hurt her. Just wait and he'll be back.

DONNA, Glasgow You must have "mug" written on your forehead. He doesn't want you and he's not going to leave her. Don't wait around for something that's not going to happen.

JANETTE, Temple